Tuesday, January 16, 2018

January 2018 Word of the Month: Character

Week 1

“You can easily judge the character of a man by how he treats those who can do nothing for  him.”

James D. Miles

Week 2

”A ‘No’ uttered from deepest conviction is better and greater than a ‘Yes’ merely uttered to please, or what is worse, to avoid trouble.”

Mahatma Gandhi, 20th century proponent of non-violence and the spiritual leader of India’s independence

Week 3

“Character is like a tree and reputation like its shadow. The shadow is what we think of it; the tree is the real thing.”

Abraham Lincoln, 16th President of the United States


Week 4

“Personality can open doors, but only character can keep them open.”


Elmer G. Letterman, business executive

2018 Goal Setting--Be the person others wish to train with

Since we are in the month of January and keeping with the tradition of making resolutions for the new year, I thought it timely to offer some suggestions for goal setting in the dojo that is sure to enhance the training experience for everyone in the dojo.

“It should be your goal to be the person others desire to practice with.” --Jigoro Kano

If you are a good practice partner, others will want to practice with you. What does it take to be the person others wish to partner with?
  •  Show up!—You can never replace the time away from training. When you are gone, your partners suffer as well as you. We need other bodies to work with, other minds to analyze with, and teammates to perpetuate growth. Consistent time on the mats is one of the greatest ways to get a good grasp on the intricacies of Jiu-jitsu.
  •  Practice good dojo etiquette—Etiquette is about politeness, safety, and tradition. If you start with good etiquette, you are on the right path for martial arts success.
  • Good hygiene—having a clean uniform, no body odor, and fresh breath really help make you a more desirable training partner.
  • Stick to the curriculum—If the instructor directs you to work on something, that is the thing you should be working on. If you decide to improvise, you are preventing yourself and your partner from fully grasping the nuances of the techniques, tactics, and strategies being taught. Even if you have done the technique numerous times before, perhaps your partner hasn't. Also, repetition develops muscle memory. 
  • Be safe—you are in a position of trust. Your partner essentially is putting their safety and at times even their life in your care. If you are reckless, you are endangering your partner. No one wants to practice with someone that is not trustworthy.
  • Work ethic—accurate repetition is key to developing muscle memory. Get in your repetitions in a timely manner allowing your partner to do the same. If you finish before the rest of the class, continue to trade repetitions until others are finished. Remember, “It isn’t the hours you put into your work that counts, but the work you put into the hours.”
  • Learning environment—Remember that the dojo is not a contest zone, it is a place of enlightenment. You are not in competition with your training partners. You and your partners depend upon one another to learn the finite details of Jiu-jitsu. In the dojo, mistakes are an opportunity to learn.
  • Positive attitude—treat the dojo like a sanctuary. When you bow and step onto the mat, let go of all you outside troubles and worries. Approach your training with enthusiasm and focus. Your enthusiasm will be contagious and will encourage a better overall training environment.


If you take these steps, you will surely be on your way to another great year of learning and having a great time. Happy New Year!